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Women are, sometimes, unfortunately most attracted to the men who end up being the biggest dogs. The guy with the nice car, fancy suit, super high “cool factor,” fame and money is the one you want, and he’s also the one that every other woman wants. Some men take advantage of their extra s****l opportunities, some don’t. Also, some men are there for a short ride and some are with you for the long haul.
Here are some ways to know what kind of man you’re dealing with. A man who is taking you seriously is more likely to:
1) Give you his time – a man can spend money on a lot of women, but it’s hard to give all of those women his time. If a busy man is spending hours and hours in your space, that means you’re the biggest thing on his radar screen.
2) Make sure that other people know about you immediately, especially other women – If a man is sleeping with you in secret, he doesn’t tell others about you and keeps you off to the side. If he’s parading you and telling others about you, that means he sees you as more than just a s*x object.
3) Have a strong set of morals and values – a guy with good values who makes good decisions is less likely to be reckless with his s****l decisions. With all the diseases out there, the last thing you want is a man who is careless with his body and yours. Remember – if you bag that handsome man that every woman wants, it’s going to be his self-discipline that keeps him from acting a d**n fool. Don’t just listen to what he says, watch what he does.
4) Be consistent with you – a man who calls you every day at the same time and consistently makes time to see you is usually one who really cares about you. Period.
5) Make plans with you - a man who plans his future with you, mentions what it’s going to be like growing old together or talks about kids with you is wondering what kind of parent you’re going to be. That’s a good thing.
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zombiesnthechurch
June 29, 2012 at 12:38 pm
O yea I forgot to put out there my most cautious saying: “THE GAME AINT CHANGED JUST THE PLAYAS”!!!!!! And when game don t know game and put their emotions where their conscience should be then they often get PLAYED!!!!!!
zombiesnthechurch
June 29, 2012 at 12:36 pm
All makes common sense…but just as the beginning of the article said —looking at his physique, house and car…women too are guilty of not thinking with the right ‘head’…..because instead of being so overly concerned with what he is driving they need to be trying to get into his head to see WHAT DRIVES HIM…and as long as women see men as their RESCUER there will forever be women that are rescued by men and THEN THROWN BACK INTO THE SEA………hummmmm
Ken W
June 29, 2012 at 10:58 am
Great article! I wish more brothers would be ‘stayas’ instead of ‘playas’. I wish the good women out there would educate themselves to recognize the brothas out there that mean no good. These type of brothas make it hard for guys like me trying to find a good woman and treat her right. A lot if sisters can’t appreciate a good man either! We are still out here, but are outnumbered by the ‘playas’. This article is good in that maybe some women will wise up to the playas out there, and realize a good brother when they see one. I believe this ‘playa’ phenomenon is hurting the traditional Black family, and causing the Black family as we knew it to become extinct!
Rose
June 29, 2012 at 4:27 am
You are exactly on the money brother from my experience and thank you for putting out the accurate informtion for us sisters.
I have been speaking to sisters for years about the brothers. Most would agree and others would not. For some reason they would go by what they brothers do? Every man is not your brother? Again, thank you.
AMAZINGGRACE
June 28, 2012 at 4:47 pm
I’ll drink to that. (An ice cold bottle of water)…. We’re having a heatwave…
Derrick
June 28, 2012 at 11:34 am
6. No fake hair – a man, who admires his woman, who wears her hair NATURAL (without a weave) loves to run his hands through her hair. A fake long blonde weave will turn a real man off.
7. Be like the Black Raven – a man will be with you for life; just like the Black Raven. They mate for LIFE! Bye the way…the Raven was the Messiah’s bird of flight, not the white dove!
KNOW HOW TO COOK AND KEEP A CLEAN HOUSE!!!
mozlyric
June 28, 2012 at 3:21 pm
@Derrick
I appreciate your comment!
Just a bit of wisdom, if your Queen is NOT a stay at home mom and is holding down a 9 to 5….help her out with house maintinence, don’t let things fall a part, assist her in keeping the grounds groomed.
This is a big help to her and gives her more energy for those intimate moments that are so necessary in keeping you mated for life!
peace & love
Derrick
June 29, 2012 at 4:58 pm
I appreciate your comment also.
A good woman ALWAYS stands next to a good man. Not behind; not in front, but by his side!
The Black Goddesses/Queens in Kemet always respected their Black Kings and Gods.
Unfortunately, these negro women today, only want bling, wings and slings (slingers aka dope dealers)!
You appear to be one of the Black Messiahs chosen few.
Toni
June 28, 2012 at 11:05 am
This is a great post. I’m so happy to say I have a man in my life that does ALL of these things, and I truly adore him for it
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Leon Boone
June 28, 2012 at 8:18 am
Good Advice :0)