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The (Ree)lationship Guide: Men, How Do You Know When You’re Caught in the “Friend Zone”?

The (Ree)lationship Guide:

 

There is a wretched and terrible place for a man to live, a place where most men almost never go voluntarily, unless they happen to be disinterested, previously committed or gay.  It’s that horrible cage that a woman can put you in and never let you out.  That place is called “The Friend Zone.”

When a man is caught in the Friend Zone, he can be the best boyfriend prospect that a woman has and still be consistently overlooked for whatever goon, thug or loser that happens to come into the woman’s life.  Then, he gets to listen to her cry all night about her consistent and repetitive relationship problems, while another man gets the s****l rewards that typically come from being so attentive.

Ree, the (Ree)lationship Guide talks about the Friend Zone and how men can be made fully aware of when they are in it.  She’s not saying that you shouldn’t ever be interested in being in the Friend Zone, but by knowing your status and knowing that it will probably never change, you can at least make a conscious decision about how you want to proceed from that point on.

Says Ree:

Picture this: You and a female companion have been spending a lot of time together. Although you didn’t foresee it happening, you are acquiring a strong interest in her that goes beyond your friendship. She seems to have the same interest in you that you have in her, but you’re still uncertain. You push pride aside and let her know that you want to become more than friends… She appears to be shocked and proceeds to explain why she thinks you two should remain friends. You’re disappointed, but I want you to know that you’re not alone. A plethora of men are picking up what remains of their heart after receiving disappointing news that a lady friend is uninterested in taking their friendship to another level. How could you have not noticed she wasn’t feelin’ you? It’s pretty difficult to understand the friendship-relationship boundary with women. We can invest time in you emotionally, but not physically. Or we can invest time in you physically, but not emotionally. Either way, if we’re not investing in you physically and emotionally, we’re not going to want to take the relationship much further. I must be clear in saying that you still may stand a chance.

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2 Responses to The (Ree)lationship Guide: Men, How Do You Know When You’re Caught in the “Friend Zone”?

  1. Chris Reply

    July 27, 2012 at 11:42 am

    So the basic idea of this particular article is to help Men understand that the friend zone is basically the place where a woman won’t pursue anything further after they’ve admitted their interest? If you’re going to commit some advice to this particular subject matter, I’d advise that you’d send this advice to the females who continue to maintain the “friend zone” type of categorization and instead open their eyes to the Men who’d likely be the ones to treat her right as opposed to the “goon, thug and/or loser” that would normally receive the attention. Don’t you think that makes more sense?

  2. Mr run it Reply

    July 27, 2012 at 5:42 am

    (“derrick da dimwit”)
    you need help! just your presence on this site screams desperation! 50to60 rambling comments a day-then you’ll come back onto a page and try to co-sign after another persons post (you??) truth and knowledge?? how in the fuc u gone have more truth and knowledge then the people who write these articles? u heard about them five minutes ago! the truth is that knowledge u say you spittin is from wikipedia and them conspiracy websites u be on! ni–a i done seen u come on to a page and download all the information on nelson mandela?? who the fuc ask you to do dat? ni–a we don’t care if u can goole somebodys name! we all got a computer to ni–a! u must be one me those dudes who sell newspapers at the on ramp! always tryin to tell me somethin-hatein on dem white folks aint nothin new! that s**t been around forever! and that conspiracy s**t?? “man please” that been on the internet since the beginning! u just now caught on to it when u stole a laptop and found a wireless connection-get a life!

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