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by Dr. Julianne Malveaux By now, it’s old news that Kasandra Perkins was murdered by Kansas City Chiefs football player Jovan Belcher, her boyfriend and the father of her daughter.  By now we’ve read about how great a teammate Belcher was, how dedicated to his girlfriend and daughter. We’ve read his hardscrabble story of moving from the University of Maine, hardly a football powerhouse, to a coveted slot in the NFL Belcher has been humanized, even enshrined as his friends have talked about him not having a violent bone in his body.  What about Kasandra?  It has been disturbing that the news focused mostly on Jovan (yes, I know, he was the famous one), with a focus on Kasandra only later in the week.  Her friends said they did not want her life to be overshadowed by the sympathetic coverage of Jovan.   While Jovan Belcher was clearly a troubled man, the bottom line is that Jovan Belcher murdered Kasandra Perkins.  Not just shot her, he murdered her.  And then he killed himself.  Yes, this is a tragedy, but it is also a murder, so let’s not use euphemisms, let’s just call it what it is.   The news reports that Belcher was angry because Kasandra Perkins went to a concert and came home at about one in the morning.  But another report says that he was parked outside some other woman’s house in the middle of the night.  Go figure.   What do we know about Kasandra Perkins?  The 22-year-old woman from Texas aspired to be a teacher and was studying at a local community college.  She had a 3-month-old child, Zoey.  She made friends easily and worked with other wives and girlfriends of Chiefs players.   She enjoyed going out with friends.  There is probably lots more to her story, but it has been scantily reported. Nobody knows what goes in in a relationship except those who are in it.  So it is also disturbing to see Belcher’s friends take to the media to describe the relationship as troubled and to suggest that Kasandra is at fault for her own murder.  According to some, she provoked her own murder by staying out late at night.  Guess what?  Belcher’s mother was caring for their infant.  Sounds like a control issue to me.   Too often, men beat and even kill women when they step outside their sphere of control.  Women are beaten or killed because they didn’t cook dinner, because they raised their voice, because they chose to spend time with friends or family, because, because.  This violence does not know race, class or gender, though different groups have different levels of violence.  While 1.5 million women experience domestic violence annually, African American women are 35 percent more likely than white women to be battered.   Without mentioning names, the Kansas City Chiefs called for a moment of silence for victims of domestic violence during the game that Jovan Belcher did not play.  With football the focus they did not have the grace to mention Kasandra Perkins by name.   It would have made a difference if they had.  Despite the fact that Belcher was a member of the KC team, there is a villain and a victim in this incident. This type of violence is such an epidemic that the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) was passed in 1994.  The act established an office in the Department of Justice works to prevent violence, and allocated $1.6 billion to work on violence against women issues, including strengthening existing state law and raising awareness of this issue.   Now the law is up for reauthorization, and some Republicans are holding it up because they do not agree with protections for Native American women, immigrant women, and people in same-s*x couples.  We know that VAWA is effective.  Since its passage intimate partner violence has dropped by about 60 percent, but it didn’t save Kasandra Perkins. If nothing else, her brutal murder reminds us why this act is so important.   Jovan Belcher had a temper, drank heavily, and had at least eight guns.  Some say he had suffered multiple head injuries playing football.  That’s no excuse for a murder so brutal that he shot Kasandra nine times.  And the stories about his supposed nonviolence is contradicted by some of his college behavior, including punching through a window when he was frustrated by a girlfriend who did not want to see him.  This man was a serious candidate for anger management!   Kasandra Perkins isn’t the only woman who has been murdered by a husband or boyfriend.  According to the Department of Justice, three women are killed by spouses or partners every day.  I don’t want to hear about the tragedy of football player Jovan Belcher.  I want to mourn Kasandra and the many women like her.  And in her name, and in the name of others, we must all fight to get the Violence Against Women Act renewed.    

Dr. Julianne Malveaux Says that in the Jovan Belcher Killing, Everyone is Forgetting about Kasandra

by Dr. Julianne Malveaux

By now, it’s old news that Kasandra Perkins was murdered by Kansas City Chiefs football player Jovan Belcher, her boyfriend and the father of her daughter.  By now we’ve read about how great a teammate Belcher was, how dedicated to his girlfriend and daughter. We’ve read his hardscrabble story of moving from the University of Maine, hardly a football powerhouse, to a coveted slot in the NFL Belcher has been humanized, even enshrined as his friends have talked about him not having a violent bone in his body.  What about Kasandra?  It has been disturbing that the news focused mostly on Jovan (yes, I know, he was the famous one), with a focus on Kasandra only later in the week.  Her friends said they did not want her life to be overshadowed by the sympathetic coverage of Jovan.

 

While Jovan Belcher was clearly a troubled man, the bottom line is that Jovan Belcher murdered Kasandra Perkins.

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9 comments

  1. Elizabeth A Upshaw

    Rip Kasandra

  2. This is true. Society still upholds the male whether he is right or wrong and the female either goes unnoticed, blamed as the cause, or made out to be the bad girl. In my opinion, this man was doggish and had cheating tendancies. I believe the baby's mom was tough and would stand up to him and he did not like being challenged, like most african american males, mainly because theythink they are better than african american which is why they go to caucasian women. It amazes me how african american men disrespect the very same women who have to raise them when their fathers walk out of their life, when they are incarcerated, unemployed etc.

    • I feel were you are coming from, and respect your view. Though we as African Men have may of drooped the ball in many areas we all are not distraught in our thinking and living. If a person looks at something long enough you will find fault. I have not made the best choices in life, but who has? Life is a struggle and what I do is use it to be a better Man. All Afirican Man is not distorted in our living. If people trip about what others do, then maybe they are not doing enough to change the make up of today. I'm definitely a Black Man who is God fearing, love life and people. I have balance in all I do. Never be bitter or mad about what I can't controll. A lot of our genaration has dropped the ball in raising family and being a example to the youth. But I'm not surprised, because the maddness of the world has been told to us before I was a gleam in my father eye. All I can do is keep my soul and spirit pure for I can continue to live. Keep my four pillars tight, the king, mentor, friend, respect. I apologize for my mishaps to all my African sister, but if I did not stumble on my way, I would not of beome the Man I have become today. A leader to me is a servant of the people. LOL .

  3. No one deserved to die someone should've got involved in their business. Got them help.

  4. Well we in kc and we dont nor never forget

  5. Yes, she is to be FOREVER remembered! No matter what what went on between them, she didn't deserve to die, nor Zoey to be parent less! He MAY have been all the things they say he was but we KNOW what he was in the end, a MURDERING COWARD! And I will NEVER celebrate that!
    Suicide is for PUNKS!!! As long as you're here you can make things right!

  6. Yes he did.And we should not forget about her,but let us also not get caught up in the anti black male backlash that paints all black men as potential killers when one goes off the rails.That black female that slit her room mate’s throat a few months back didn’t hardly get any attention.Nor does the black woman murdering her children because her husband didn’t want her anymore,result in all black women being seen as potential child murderers.

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