What's Happening In Your World
By Clarene Mitchell The recent predatory accusations by an acquaintance of Kevin Clash, the voice of the beloved “Sesame Street” character Elmo, instantly garnered media attention. Major television networks covered the shocking story and it became social media chatter. However, the media coverage missed a very crucial angle…the danger the ‘down-low’ phenomenon poses to women, specifically to Black women.  Simply defined, the ‘down-low’ phraseology refers to the secretive lifestyle of men who sleep with other men and women, yet do not identify themselves as being gay or bi-s*xual. Within this context, the term generally refers to urban African American men. According to the Black Women’s Health Imperative, “Nationally, Black women account for 66% of new cases of HIV among women.”  Another compelling reality is that the HIV rate among Black women in some cities in the United States is comparable to the HIV rate in some African countries. These statistics are worsening instead of improving. Clash quickly countered the disturbing accusations by publicly announcing he was unashamedly gay, that the person in question was of age and they were involved in a mutually consensual relationship. The accuser has since recanted his claim. Perhaps the full truths of their involvement may never come out, but it is known that Clash was married and the father of one daughter. In fact, the 2011 documentary Being Elmo: A Puppeteer’s Journey , featured Clash’s former wife and daughter. In the film, he lamented on not having enough family time due to the demands of his career. He reportedly divorced in 2003.  The recent developments should raise questions as to whether or not Clash was involved in gay relationships during his marriage. There was a lot of talk about the ‘down-low’ phenomenon in 2005 when J.L. King’s book, On the Down Low , hit bookstores. It was featured reading for book clubs and King traveled the country giving lectures telling all about his own personal experiences being a ‘down-low’ brother. These days there is little mention of ‘down-low’ brothers, the subculture of Black men who live double lives; giving the  outward appearance of devoted husbands and fathers, yet they have clandestine relations with men while exposing their wives/significant others to risk of diseases. Men who sleep with men, MSMs, are talked about more with little mention of women who may be the unsuspecting causalities of the subculture goings-on. One such case of a man living a ‘straight life’ was reported recently in Wisconsin. Sadly, his wife and son were told by medical staff of his AIDS diagnosis while he was in the hospital obtaining care. This disclosure forced him to reveal he had been sleeping with men. The living straight charade was also portrayed in Tyler Perry’s movie adaptation of For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow is Enuf . The character played by Janet Jackson discovers that an illness she thought was just a cold or stress was instead HIV. To her dismay, she learns she was infected by her husband who was sleeping with men. The unsettling aspect of his explanation was his insistence he was not gay because he only sleeps with the men, he is not in an actual relationship with them and he is the dominate one within the encounters…meaning he is the one who’s in the position of ‘entering’ the other man. The CDC reports that the high percentage of Black women who are newly diagnosed with HIV is attributed to their involvement in heterosexual relationships. It is highly suspected that their significant others cheat on them, whether with other women or men, and then return home and infect them. In the case of men secretly sleeping with men, the likelihood of them getting HIV is increased because they typically are in denial about their behavior, thus not taking the proper precautions to protect themselves. It is not known if Clash’s private activities with other men began before, during or after his marriage to his wife. But it is known that those men who do live the double lives of being in male-female relationships and secretly creeping with men put the lives of women and the community as a whole in jeopardy. Unbeknownst to the women, their assumingly monogamous relationships are just farces. The wall of security comes crashing down when the game of Russian roulette changes their lives forever with the realization of HIV/AIDS. It may be surprising to some to know that according to an August 2012 report by the Wisconsin Department of Health Services, more than one out of every three Black MSMs in Milwaukee County is HIV-positive. Additionally between 2007 – 2011, Black women in Milwaukee County were diagnosed with HIV at a rate 27 times higher compared to white women. With these startling statistics in mind, it is vitally important that women do all they can to protect themselves from this threat. Ask the right questions. Demand truthful answers. Don’t ignore the clues. Just as vital is the need for men to own up to what their preferences are and exit the subculture life that all too often leads to deadly consequences. The maybe gay, maybe not game is putting far too many lives at risk for the human immunodeficiency virus. This is just one piece of the HIV/AIDS epidemic that must be eradicated. Clarene Mitchell has over twenty years of print journalism and health disparities advocacy experience. Mrs. Mitchell also works as a program manager for a medical school in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

Mr. Elmo Was Married Too: Kevin Clash, Black Women and the “Downlow Phenomenon”

By Clarene Mitchell
The recent predatory accusations by an acquaintance of Kevin Clash, the voice of the beloved “Sesame Street” character Elmo, instantly garnered media attention. Major television networks covered the shocking story and it became social media chatter.
However, the media coverage missed a very crucial angle…the danger the ‘down-low’ phenomenon poses to women, specifically to Black women.  Simply defined, the ‘down-low’ phraseology refers to the secretive lifestyle of men who sleep with other men and women, yet do not identify themselves as being gay or bi-s*xual. Within this context, the term generally refers to urban African American men.
According to the Black Women’s Health Imperative, “Nationally, Black women account for 66% of new cases of HIV among women.”  Another compelling reality is that the HIV rate among Black women in some cities in the United States is comparable to the HIV rate in some African countries. These statistics are worsening instead of improving.

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  3. "The team, called the HIV Prevention Trials Network (HPTN), announced results from its HPTN 064 Women's HIV Seroincidence Study (ISIS) this week, which found that among 2,099 WOMEN AGES 18 to 44, 88 PERCENT OF WHOM WERE BLACK, 1.5 PERCENT (32 women) tested positive at the outset of the study, even though they all thought they were negative. Among those who initially tested negative for HIV, the rate of new infections was 0.24 percent within a year after joining the study." –2099 women does not equate to 66% of all black women in the United States! —

    "While awareness is good, the creators of the study specifically targeted high risk communities and only included women with risk factors for HIV. That means that if a woman didn't live in a high risk community and don't have a risk factor, they weren't interested in having her participate in the study.
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    They put these results out there as if they applied to all black women. In reality they targeted a specific demographic within the black community that they knew had high risk factors for HIV. If this were publicized more clearly, it might be acceptable. As it stands, the implication is that these results are applicable to all black women, and that is patently false.

    Journalists also need to start taking more responsibility for interpreting these statistics and studies more accurately, and perhaps with greater scrutiny. " AriD2385

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  4. Let us not forget the large number of African American women declaring that they are lesbians and then years later turning straight, it is clear to me that the same sex phenonom is merely a search for more exotic sexual experiences by some.Consider the revelations by the wife of a candidate for Mayor of NYC , that she was once a lesbian and is now straight, review her writings when she was a lesbian activists.

  5. Yeah today's world is very scary and to think he was married and probably got a child or two of his own, what is wrong with these sorts of men, to think the leader of our children, the king of our tribes, the head of our homes stands to be watched!

  6. Man what a disappointment cause my grand-baby love Elmo and has almost every character of Elmo man what a disappointment, I don't even have words for this one but it seem as though a lot of these children characters have some kind of perverted state of being!

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